Thursday, May 20, 2010
in case anyone is still reading this
Tuesday, May 11, 2010
Not American Enough
So today I went back to my high school to see how I can get my IB score sent to the college I will be transferring to. The IB coordinator at our school was proctoring an IB examination. I didn't want to interrupt her and the whole entire class that was taking the test so I went to the my high school counselor to see if she can help me.
She told me that I have to talk to my IB coordinator about that so I told her the testing situation. She sort of laughed at me and told me "Oh, you're too Asian. You can walk in there. It's alright. You got to be more American."
My jaw just dropped when she told me that. I looked at her like "Are you serious?" That's the first time someone told me seriously that I'm not American enough.
I don't think she meant to be racist or mean, but the stereotype that Asians are timid while Americans are assertive is so normalized inside her head that she doesn't realized what she said was rather inappropriate. I don't think she would have made the same remark or even thought about such a thing if I was any other race.
So what was supposedly my personal character, timidity, became an attribute of my race. By the way, I do not think that it is considered timidity when I just want to be respectful to students who are taking a test they prepared two years for.
I think I've been a rather sheltered person throughout my life. I talked and discussed race in academic and friendly, social settings, but never really faced race so blatantly, so I was surprised when the incident happened. It's not that I don't know that stereotypes exist and people conform to them, it's just it has never been directed personally at me. It was an interesting experience to say the least and I just want to share it with you guys. What do you guys make of it? What is BEING American to you?
Thursday, May 6, 2010
Last Weekend
Dealing with White Guilt
Today at the gas station....
I think that the interesting part is that if the man questioning me had not been black, I don't think that the young white gentleman would have even paid any attention. Despite the fact that he didn't even necessarily know what was being said, simply saw the two of us and assumed that I was uncomfortable with the situation. Although I was somewhat aggravated by the fact that this guy would not leave me alone, I was also kind of frustrated at the fact that the white guy automatically assumed that he was bothering me. Any thoughts?
Wednesday, May 5, 2010
Diverse Community on SLU's Campus
Political Correctness
Harassment-Bias Incident: SLU's Surprising Concern
A female SLU student reported that an unknown male made a racially charged threat against her in the overnight hours of May 1. The alleged incident took place on Laclede Avenue near the Laclede Street Bar & Grill.
The University has reported the incident to St. Louis Police, and an investigation is under way to ascertain the identity of the individual who allegedly made the statement.
The Dean of Students and the Director of Public Safety have spoken to the student who made the report. Campus Ministry and Student Health and Counseling will provide support as requested.
Jennifer K. Scheessele
Director, Diversity and Affirmative Action
I, it's sad to say, do not usually pay much attention to these types of emails. I think living in this area begins to numb you to certain things; for example, I don't even notice when a siren goes off anymore. I think the same has happened with hearing about crime around campus. Yet, this particular email caught my interest, what intrigued me about the email was the subject of the crime which occurred. It was a verbal threat that was 'racially charged' that did not occur on campus and it was initiated from a (seemingly) non-SLU student. The amount of effort that has been put into the investigation of this occurrence is another thing I found very interesting. It may seem callous or harsh to say that I don't really feel that this amount of police involvement is quite that necessary. I must say the only information that I have of the situation is what was I gained from the above email.
Of course I am not saying that I do not believe active racism to be a very serious issue or offense, but part of me feels that the circumstances and the outcome of this particular incident do not necessarily warrant the degree of attention that it is being given. Something that this brought up in my mind was another recent DPS email that was sent about a sexual assault that occurred on campus between two SLU students. That email is as follows:
The Real Eve
Racism Toward Middle Easterners: When did it starts?
Anyways, over the last few years, news like these have surfaced often. Americans' view on people from the Middle East has changed since 9/11.
However, the region and the people are still very ambiguous to me. Before 9/11, we know very little about the Middle East besides the fact that it provides us oil. After 9/11, we still understand very little about the people and the region, beside what is shown on T.V. that they are the enemies.
I know there are many stereotypes about Middle Easterners right now, but what I want to know is: has there been racism toward these people even before 9/11? What race was these people categorized under before the word "Middle Eastern" elicits so much emotions and evoke so many ideas. Previously, were they perceived as simply black, white, or Asian, depending on their physical characteristics?
I think the fact that Middle Eastern becomes more popularly viewed as a race after 9/11 shows just how much the categorization of race changes depending on the sociological context.
The Office: Daryl and Stanley
| Michael Scott: | I was under the impression that this was going to be a rap. |
| Darryl: | What's rap? |
| Michael Scott: | Darryl, wow. You need to learn a lot about your own culture. I'll make you a mix. |
| Darryl: | Great. |
Arizona Immigration Law
Language
Tuesday, May 4, 2010
Frustration
Really? Why do people have to conform to stereotypes? It just solidifies stubborn idiots' narrow views of others.
Categorizing People
Personally, I feel that our society is stuck on judging people based on their appearance. I think it is a very ambitious goal to assume that we will one day be able to move past this. I don't necessarily think that it is appropriate to assign cultural meanings to someone based on their physical appearance, but I feel that it is something that we all do. This goes hand in hand with stereotyping people. Despite the fact that we may be highly inaccurate, it is something that we do on a regular basis. I think that because people in this world are so inter-racially mixed that it is hard to assign cultural meaning to one's physical appearance. I wish that there was a way to show everyone in society that this is not an appropriate way to group people, but at the same time it is kind of human nature.
Stereotypes
Does Race Determine Opportunity
Personally, in a way, I think that this is true. When one is of a minority race, it seems as though society places a burden on them, making it harder for them to get a job, find housing, etc. Even the schools and educational opportunities are different. Within St. Louis, the inner city is minority dominated, and the schooling system is not really comparable to that of the county, which are predominantly white. I think that this is important because an individuals education has a lot of emphasis on the opportunities that they receive throughout the rest of their life.
I feel that stereotypes play a major role in this as well. For example, the stereotype that "all Asians are smart" plays a role in the opportunities that they are given. Not to mention all of the stereotypes about whites and blacks. Despite the fact that these stereotypes may not be true, many people still base their decisions off of them.
Although I understand that this happens, I think that it is unfair. I think that everyone should be given the same opportunities. I don't think that it is fair to base an individuals opportunities off of where they grew up and the opportunities they were given as a child. After all, I don't think that it is someone's fault how or where they were raised, sometimes this is just outside of an individuals control.
Any thoughts?
Monday, May 3, 2010
I bet any one of you could have written this post...
You Know You're Asian When...
You know you're Asian if...
1. Your mother has a short-haired, curly perm
2. Your dad is some sort of engineer
3. Your parents still tried to get you into places half-price saying you were 12 when you were really 15
4. You ask your parents help on one math problem and 2 hours later they're still lecturing
5. You have a 40 lb. bag of rice in your pantry
6. You shop 99 ranch
7. Everyone thinks you're "Chinese" no matter what part of Asia your ancestors were from
8. You've had a bowl haircut at one point in your life
9. Your parents enjoy comparing you to their friends' kids
10. You've had to sit through karaoke videos with scantily clad, ugly Asian women attempting to dance and walk around a temple, forest, or library
11. Your parents say, "Don't forget your heritage"
12. You drive mostly Japanese cars.
13. You've learned to keep bargaining even if the prices are rock bottom
14. You've had to eat parts of animals they don't even put in hot dogs
15. At least once, you've started a joke with "Confucius say...."
16. You know what bok choy is
17. You've gotten little red envelopes around February
18. Piles of shoes tend to make it hard to open the front, back, and closet doors
19. You hear (your name + eee (optional) + yah!) every time someone calls you (e.g. Jean - ee - yah! or Mary - yah!)
20. You have no eyelashes
21. Idiot people try to impress you with pathetic imitation Asian languages, like the ever-so-popular: ching chong woo bok chi, etc..
22. Your parents say leaving rice in your bowl is a sin
23. The Bio lectures on marine life (seaweed, sea cucumbers, octopii) was last night's dinner
24. Your ancestors 1000 generations back invented the back scratcher
25. At least one family member wears black wire/plastic frame glasses
26. Your parents hover over your tired, caffeine-drugged body at 12 midnight to say, "In Korea (or other native country), we studied even more."
27. Your parents expect you'll be best friends with any one off the street in any given area as long as they are Asian
28. An Asian woman comes on campus and people ask: "Is that your mother?" Well then, "Is it your sister?"
29. Your relatives' houses smell like incense, mothballs or both
30. Your parents say, "Calculus? I took Calculus in 8th grade!"
31. Everyone thinks you're good at math
32. Your parents' vocabulary is filled with "ai-yahs, and Wah's"
33. You like $1.75 movies
34. You like $1.50 movies even more
35. Your aunts and uncles bring you back adorable clothing from Asia with fuzzy bunnies, vinyl ducks, and English words that make no sense, in great colors like yellow, pink, magenta, orange, and the ever popular lime green
36. Your parents insist you marry within your race
37. You never order chop suey, sweet and sour pork, or any other imitation of oriental food
38. You either really, really want to go to UCI or really, really want to stay away from it
39. Your parents have never kissed you
40. Your parents have never kissed each other
41. You learned about the birds and the bees from someone other than your parents
42. "You want a stereo?! When I was your age, I didn't even have shoes!!"
43. People see a bunch of scribbles on a chopstick and ask you to translate
44. You have to call just about all your parent's friends "Auntie and Uncle"
45. You have 12+ aunts and uncles
46. At expensive restaurants, you order a delicious glass of water for your beverage and NEVER order dessert
47. Your parents simply cut the green/black part off the bread and say "Eat anyway. It's still good."
48. The vast majority of the people related to you wear glasses. Thick glasses.
49. You will most likely be taller than your parents
50. Your parents have either make you play the piano, the violin, or both
51. You get nothing if you do well in school, but crapped on if you don't
52. When going to other people's houses, you always have to bring a gift
53. Your dad still pulls his socks up to his knees, you know, the ones with the blue and pink stripes at the top
54. Your family owns a tennis racquet, golf clubs, or both
55. Your family always cheers for the Asian athlete on TV (i.e. Michael Chan)
56. The furniture in your house never matches the wallpaper, the carpet, the decorations, or any of the rest of the furniture
57. You have rocks, sticks, leaves, and strange-smelling, unknown substances in your pantry for use as medicine
58. You own a rice cooker or two
59. You buy soy sauce by the gallon
60. Your family owns butcher knives bigger than your head
61. Your parents tell you about how long it took for them to get to school, how horrible the weather was in their native country, and how much they still appreciated going
62. Your parents buy you clothes and shoes many sizes too big so you can "grow into it" and wear it for years to come.
I got this from http://www.asianjoke.com/general/ways_of_asians.htm, just in case you're wondering.
MSNBC-Racial Segregation in Mississippi
I think that this article makes it clear that race is still a major issue within our country. Although the school district was not directly segregating their school system, the fact that they allowed so many individuals to transfer to schools outside of their district to districts that were dominated by one race gives the impression that they still support racial segregation. Because SLU is so focused on diversity, I have come to realize just how important respect and understanding for other cultures is, and I feel that there are many benefits to this level of understanding. I think that this school district allowed this to happen, possibly thinking that it could cut down on issues involving race within the schools and make students more comfortable. But at the same time, if we never leave our comfort zone, what exactly do we learn? Through being surrounded by people of numerous different races, I have learned so much about other cultures and views. I think that if people avoid this, they are missing out on many opportunities to learn about other cultures.
Mexicans in the Landscaping Industry
Initially, I never would have considered this to be an issue of race. However, after stepping back from the situation and looking at it from their point of view, I can sort of see why they felt that way. This situation made me realize how much race affects certain people and how one situation can be interpreted by different people in different ways. I think that because I tend to ignore race when dealing with people that come into Lacledes, it wouldn't have initially occurred to me that this situation was racist, but it was obviously upsetting to our customers. In a way, I think that this shows that there are people that still feel very oppressed because of their race, and therefore shows that race is still a major issue within our country. Any thoughts?